Tuesday, March 31, 2009
No Time. No Energy. Plenty of Excuses.
So here are just a few of my excuses:
1. I was REALLY sick and didn't have the energy to take care of my family, let alone write about it.
2. Even though I was sick, the world didn't stop turning, which I find deeply offensive. So I still had plenty of responsibilities to keep me busy.
3. Too much keeps happening and it's piling up and it gets too overwhelming, so I put it off for yet another day.
4. My normal blogging time is after bedtime, which also happens to be my showering time, my reading time, my scrapbooking time, and sometimes my exercise time. I've had to prioritize (reading won).
So why don't I give a QUICK update (Robben is napping, therefore this is my alternate shower time)...
*We got the lizard and named him Rex (as in T-Rex). He's BIG, but luckily not all that creepy. I took pictures of him, but that will have to be for another time. So far he is not too neglected. He gets fed daily (chicken, eggs, porkchops, etc), but not really played with a whole lot yet, which I think suits his fancy just fine.
*Track is still going strong, and Tyler has found a new passion. He is driven, as Todd describes it, to get better every day. His current PR (personal record) is 11'-0", which was Todd's PR as a Freshman. There are still 2 months left in this season, so Tyler's goal is to beat dad's record. I think his goal for the season was 11'-6", but I'm pretty sure he has upped it to 12'-0" or 12'-6". Wesley is at 10'-6", but he's not as serious as Tyler. Honestly, we've never seen Tyler this into anything before.
*The girls have found a job. Elissa needed money to pay back some debts (lest cronies come after her kneecaps), so they set up a lemonade stand last week. They made $35!!! The next day they added tea cookies to the menu, but I think they forgot to add the sugar. Luckily, they're cute, 'cause people were payin' 50 cents a piece for those cookies!
*Business finally hit a lull for us (I use the term "us" very loosely). Todd was home for 2 weeks, but work is picking back up now. He has a big job coming up and I've taken 3 calls already today. So keep your fingers crossed that we're on the upswing.
*I suffered a moment of weakness last weekend. We went into an SPCA adoption center and came out with a new pooch. Well, technically. We are not yet in possession of said pooch, but she does bear the last name Hiester. They were calling her Sweety, but we've renamed her Lily. She has to get spayed, so I'm just waiting for a call saying I can come get her. I'm not even sure what day it will be! So since my last post we've managed to acquire a lizard and a dog. And I'm proud to report that we haven't lost any!
*Robben is getting his Easter pictures taken this afternoon. I wanted to do 15 month pics, but the entire month was a bust. First there was pneumonia, then we were in Kansas, and since we've been home, he manages to get bumps, bruises and scabs all over his face and head. That's not even including the chapped rash all over his chin from the CONSTANT drooling (man those teeth take their time coming in!!!). So I just decided that this is it, dang it. If you can see the marks on his head in the pictures, then by golly, that's just the way it is right now!!!
*The main scabbing on the baby's face and head came from his first skateboarding accident. Daddy was pulling him around on the mountainboard and he fell off. He cried, but not because he was hurt. He was just upset about not being on the board anymore! He has also taken to pushing the 3 girls around the living room on a skateboard. Last week he was pushing Ally and the board tipped back, spilling her onto the floor. He walked around, assessing the situation, then pulled mightily on her hair to try to get her back up and on the board. :) :) :)
*Robben has also started riding forward in the car in a big boy car seat. He looks around proudly. The best part: he dances almost the whole time! When Daddy puts on his loud screaming music, Robben throws his head forwards and back (in a head-banging motion). Sometimes he even works his mouth like he's lip singing. The next step is to teach him to hold his hands up in fists as he head bangs :)
*We took the whole family to a Christian concert Sunday night. There were 5 bands, they played for 3 1/2 hours, and it was only $10 per person. It was really cool. The SaveMart Center was packed to the gills. They said there were over 13,000 people there. It was awesome. Afterwards, we told Wesley, Ally and Amy to meet us at Carrows. Then we got stuck in the parking lot. Literally. We didn't move a single inch in 20 minutes! And it was like 9:45, so we just left the car and walked across the street to the Doghouse Grill. We couldn't reach the other kids to tell them the change in plans, so we just waited to get a call from them. We never did! After we ate, we went over to Amy's and waited there. They finally showed up at about 10:45, still hungry. And it was a school night. Ally said she was surviving on her own swallowed spit. Better than someone else's, I'd say. Anyway, we had a good time, and everyone managed to get up on time Monday morning.
If I don't scram now, who knows when I'll get a shower!
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Robben, I Have A Feeling We're Not In Kansas Anymore
The first words uttered to me by any of my children: "Marianne? We missed the bus." Off to a great start.
And here is the litany of other trials throughout the day:
**The house was a WRECK!!! I don't blame Todd, as he was busy doing my job(s) as well as his. In his words, he was in a permanent state of being on his way to do something else. He literally took his shoes off and fell into bed every day when he got home. But the kids, they are a different story. They had the time, they just didn't have the accountability, so they didn't bother to do ANY of their chores. There were dirty dishes in the sink AND in the cabinets! It took upwards of 2 hours to get the kitchen in any condition to be cooked in... so we had a very late dinner.
**When they were instructed to do their chores properly, with additional chores to get the house back in shape, some of them (they will remain nameless) dragged their feet and needed to be told repeatedly to get back on track. It took me yelling, grounding, and sending them to bed early to get the basics done.
**Fighting girls. Enough said.
**Elissa presented me with the dreaded manila envelope... the survey from the school. One for each kid. At least I'll only have to do 2 of them this year, rather than the 4 I've had to do in the past.
**Unpacking, doing laundry, and general re-entry activities.
Now I understand why the Wicked Witch wanted those stinkin' ruby slippers. I wish I had a pair of my own to magick me back to Kansas.
It Might Have Been Easier To Take A Twister
And how did the baby do on the plane? Dare you ask? Well, there are a couple of things that need to be said about that. 1) Robben is a very social baby. He worked the planes, man. In his opinion, every person on that plane was a friend to be made. Why, after all, would they be in his little world if not to love him? 2) Little boys, apparently, are not meant to be confined in small spaces. 3) Someone felt it was a brilliant idea to seat us in a MIDDLE seat, where he couldn't lay down or stretch out. There was smiling, giggling, crying, screaming, shhhing, squirming, kicking, arching, and finally sleeping... and that doesn't even touch on what Robben was doing the whole time! Three flights over = three daring challenges for Mommy. And once we got there, the little chap had to be strapped into a carseat. More screaming ensued. I can't tell you how done I am with the screaming. After "The Day That Never Ended", Lyndsay set me up with a foot massage and an alchoholic beverage. Hallelujah.
The trip home was not much better. It was in the evening when he should be ready to crash for the night. Instead, he walked up and down the aisles, making friends and being all-around rambunctious on the first flight, only falling asleep about 15 minutes before we landed. And on the second flight, there was only a short bout of screaming and fighting before he fell asleep. But that seemed too easy, so he woke up and puked on me. Curdled milk... again. Luckily, I had an extra outfit for him (I'm not stupid), but nothing for me (or maybe I am). He was up and cranky for a little while after that, but then he finally let me have some peace.
I'm sorry if this post was not a lot of fun to read, but you should at least be glad you didn't have to live it! Oh yeah, and Benedryl? It only makes the cranky baby crankier.
The All-Inclusive Chez Perez
At the resort, there is a wonderful foot-massaging machine for your personal use, but if you'd like further services, Lyndsay will make arrangements for that in the nearby city of Hays, KS.
Over all, Chez Perez is an AMAZING resort. The only drawback was having to leave. The Perez couple makes Larned, Kansas the ultimate vacation destination for any time of the year. If you have a connection with these wonderful people, I strongly suggest a getaway to their establishment. If you don't have a friend like this, GET ONE!!!
A Piece Of Heaven
Here is mine: I will be in a hammock outdoors in spring/fall (in Heaven I can probably have both at once) with a light breeze and the soft tinkling of windchimes. I will be drinking a never-ending, yet guilt-free chai from Starbucks and reading a book. Robben will be asleep on my chest with his baby face tilted up towards mine. (He'll be all of his baby ages and stages at once) And I recently added that I will be receiving a Rascal massage... she's my fat cat who is ever so SOFT; I just want her poofy warm softness rubbing all over me. And from Kansas, a new addition: the guest bed at Lyndsay's house. The only bad thing about the bed was that I had to get out of it. It was somehow firm, yet cloudlike all at once. The covers were light and fluffy, but warm and cozy. The pillows conformed to my head and body (there were a lot of them) and held me like a baby in Mama's arms. This bed deserves the honor of becoming a permanent part of my heaven.
4 Reasons Todd Would Live In Larned...& 2 Reasons He Absolutely Would Not
Though I know there will be no moving for us, I still have dreams. I hope to one day own an old farmhouse in Tuscany or Umbria and live there for about 3 months out of every year. (See, one day our own house WILL be done, and my dear husband will need another project. Plus, I would love the kids to have a vacation home to take their own families to... I'm HUGE on travel.) I would also love to have a rustic cabin in the mountains. But this particular story is about the possibilities of Kansas. Todd did ask me upon my return, if I could live there. My answer: of course, I can live anywhere (except the desert - we all have limits), because my life is what I make of it. Since I don't work, my life is about my home, my family, my friends and the activities I choose to involve myself in. When you don't have to worry about a job, the location of your life matters far less. Naturally, I imagined life in Kansas while I was there. Heck, I was treated like a queen! I'll go wherever Lyndsay & Luis are!!!
This could be a false impression, but life seems a bit simpler in Kansas. The things that Kansans concern themselves with seem to be slightly more in line with our own values than those of Californians. The prime, numero uno example of this would be the signs I saw up and down the highways - which I neglected to capture on camera :(...
1) "No baby should die by CHOICE"
2) "Smile, your mom chose life" (with a yellow smiley face)
3) A picture of a Koala Bear proclaiming "Save the baby humans!"
This, in my mind is the first of the reasons that Todd would call Kansas home. He is passionate about a few things, abortion being the absolute highest on the list.
Reason #2: pick-ups. In Kansas, you don't call these trucks. A "truck" in Kansas is a "semi" or "diesel" in California. When you are speaking of your car in general in Kansas, you use the word "vehicle". I guess we're too lazy for that here. I mean, come on, that's 3 syllables! I'm stickin' with one: "car". Even Robben can say that...now. Anyway, one of Todd's main interests is classic "pick-ups". He has one for work. I found a couple hangin' out around Lyndsay's neighborhood. When he saw these pictures he let out a long sigh. His most commonly uttered phrase when seeing a classic around town is, "be still my heart."
Reason #3: Beautiful old homes for cheap. Being in the hardwood flooring business, Todd has a great appreciation for older homes with lots and lots of character (and/or quirks). His favorite style of home is Craftsman. Not only is Lyndsay's neighborhood full of craftsman style homes, along with some Victorian, but her own house is a craftsman as well. Due to his love of classic vehicles and craftsman homes, Todd regularly says that he should have been born in a different time. I, personally, am glad he was not.
This particular house has a guest house in back, and this beautiful screened porch, and is selling for $185,000!! Plus, it's already painted Todd's favorite color :)
Here's another beauty with a guest house in back. Guest house, teenagers' I-want-to-move-out-but-can't-handle-it-on-my-own house, whatever you want to call it :)
Thursday, March 12, 2009
A Favor From Me 2 Me
Yesterday was a VERY long day, beginning with a phone call from the airlines at 2:30 am notifying me that my flight was cancelled and rescheduling me on an early flight. The day ended with a steak dinner followed by a Smirnoff wine cooler and an incredible foot massage (by a machine). I fell into a bed plucked from heaven, which will earn it's very own post on this blog when I get home. Today was a lounge-around-and-eat day. We did manage to go for a walk (at Robben's repeated request). We walked around Lyndsay's incredible neighborhood and found a scrapbook store with a coffee shop inside where we got yummy chais, then continued on to check out all the beautiful houses. Robben loved being outside, even in the cold. He was all bundled up, right down to the pair of Lyndsay's leather gloves he doned on his baby hands. I took pictures and will post them at a later date. Robben's down for the count now and we are about to watch my favorite movie, Step Up 2. And I'm hungry again, so I think I'll eat some more... First I'll put on my jammies (Lyndsay's - that's another story) so I can be comfy and unrestricted (at the waist).
I might write again from Kansas, and I might not. I get home late Sunday night, so at the latest, you'll have more to read by Monday. In the meantime, check out my sister-in-law's blog for entertainment. The link is under "Blogs I Follow" - 3x Blessed!
Happy reading :)
P.S.
The newsman is saying it might snow tonight! Yippee!!!
Monday, March 9, 2009
23 Hours In A Day
Every birthday in our house starts out the same. We have a breakfast of pancakes in the shape of the honoree's first initial. Every once in a while Todd gets crazy and spells out a whole word, as pictured above. He also did it once on the cat's birthday. Then, as the birthday girl (in this case) digs in, every other member of the family has to wait their turn to sing a birthday solo and say something nice about the b-day person. I particularly like my own birthday the best, because not only do I get to eat first, but I get to be lavished with praise... one of my favorite pastimes :) Wesley's serenade was my favorite this year, as he created a whole character and sang to me the spanish version of Happy Birthday. He can be really funny when he wants to (and sometimes we get to laugh at him even when he's not trying). Since Robben has not been well for about a week, he hasn't been eating normal meals, but we did toss him some pancake chunks and a little bit of peanut butter. This was his first experience with PB...
After breakfast, we hung out for a couple of hours (I can't even remember what I did) and then Todd and I went down to the Johnny Quik and got Subway sandwiches, chips and tea for everyone. We packed it all into backpacks, grabbed a blanket, and made for the hill. Any outing with 8 people is quite a production, so here is what Elissa did to pass the time as she waited:
There's a rope hanging from the tree and she winds it up and then flings rapidly about. I made her do it several times consequtively so I could get a good picture :) She was begging to stop.
At long last, we were off like a herd of turtles. I don't know if you can see, but way off in the distance is the rest of the family. Robben & Ally & I were laggin' behind... Robben has the shortest legs :)
I tried to take pictures on the hike up, but I think the only way to actually capture the beauty is to be up there. The hill is so close, but once you start the walk, you feel so secluded and peaceful...and out of breath.
Robben gave up walking. He had the easiest treck and halfway up, Ally and I were coveting his position.
Nobody coveted Wesley. He had to carry the mountainboard. Todd has this skateboard/snowboard type thing with gigantic off-road wheels that he takes up the hill and then rides down, much to my alarm.
I had to take a self-portrait, because whenever someone else takes a picture of me I feel awkward and... round.
When we finally reached our destination, there was only one thing on our minds... FOOD!!! Here is a photo of what it takes to feed the Hiester Crew. Todd and the big boys each got a foot long meatball sub and the girls and I each got a 6 inch club (2 foot longs split in half - $5 for any footlong baby!). And Sun Chips. Mmmmm.
After we chowed down, we stayed and enjoyed the sun, the quietude, the serenity. The little girls both commented at separate times that it reminded them of camping. They suggested camping up there, which I am opposed to for the sheer fact that I'm not willing to lug all that crap all the way up there. I prefer a campsite with a parking spot.
They also suggested going up for every birthday. I told them we should just go every weekend...why wait for a special occasion? Of course, I say that when I'm at the top, not when I'm walking up!
Todd and the boys went to ride the board, the girls scampered off somewhere to play in the grass or on the rocks, Robben played on the blanket, and Ally took up her post as the Sleeping Hiester. I later used her booty as a pillow, and a mighty fine one, I might add.
In general, we all just enjoyed the sun and all God's creation.
And no hike up the hill is ever complete without our pooch, Andy. Not only does he come up the hill EVERY time we go, leading the way, but I suspect he goes up without us on occasion. His first order of business was to find a cow patty to roll in. He made sure to actually GNAW on it. I finally had eye-witness evidence for why the kids should NOT allow him to lick their faces/mouths.
And Andy's not the only one who found a cow patty. Ally stepped in one on the way up, and Todd stepped in one on the way down. But nothing beats Robben's experience. I had taken his shoes off, because he was getting ready to fall asleep. Todd offered to take him from me, and rather than work on getting him to sleep, he let him run off in the grass in his socks. Naturally, he found a cow patty!
After about 4 hours (and I'm not exaggerating) we began the descent home. The girls and I took a short cut through the grass, but Todd and the boys stayed on the trail so they could ride the mountainboard. I guess you're never to young to risk life and limb. Here is a picture of my little boy in Dare Devil Training. He absolutely loves it! As soon as you set him on the board, he knows exactly where to hang on. Sometimes at home, he even pulls the board down and sits on it and looks around at us expectantly.
When we were almost home, we passed our neighbor, Doug, walking his donkeys. It's been a while since we've seen these cute little lassies. We used to see them pretty often, as they were little escape artists. The funniest thing is to see Wesley being dragged by a rope behind a donkey with his heels dug into the dirt. I like to call it Donkey Surfing.
And Robben got to meet them for the first time. He's not shy and he's not scared :)
The little girls got home a few minutes before the rest of us (I think they missed the donkeys) and planned out a "Birthday Surprise Fashion Show". Kurstin was the announcer, and Elissa was the model (complete with various stage names). Here are a few of the pieces they put together.
All in all, I'd say it was quite a full day, despite the missing hour.